Alcoholism, recovery, and relationships (What are the symptoms of dry drunk?)?
My friend and I are both in AA and he is also a restoration Crack / heroin addicts. We've known each other since clean and sober for several years. We have been dating for a year and a half. Mostly We have very happy together. He is 45 and has at home helping his elderly parents were living for the past four years. He has reduced his frequency of meeting his leave Sponsor, and recently injured his back. He was prescribed Vicodin. He has completely shut me out for a week because of back pain (which ignites serious feelings of fear and loneliness in me —- more irritating him). He injured his back earlier this year, and went through something similar. He was irritable, with Nahschüsse me, grilling me about private conversations I had with my sponsor. Although he has always kept in contact with me, as sick, etc., this time he has stopped almost completely Communications with me. How do I deal with this situation? I always arrange my life around him.
It sounds like he is definitley degraded. tell him you are for him there to help if he wants it. dont nag him there is nothing you can offer other than support. If he asks for help, to help him. others that do not contribute then its Luggage.